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The Rules of the New Monogamy: The Changing Face of Committed Relationships


Average Rating:
   4.3
Speakers:
Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.
Duration:
1 Hour 54 Minutes
Format:
Audio and Video
Copyright:
Mar 24, 2017
Product Code:
NOS052810
Media Type:
Digital Recordings


Description

More couples today than ever before are negotiating their monogamy in new and creative ways, including open marriage, polyamory, group marriages, transgender relationships, and a variety of intentional partnerships. As therapists, we need to understand these new developments, the challenges they bring, and the skills required of us to remain open and aware of our own triggers when addressing them. In this workshop, you’ll explore:

  • How to help clients develop a code of integrity that will define their monogamy and develop their own unique shared definition of honesty, even if it involves a departure from traditional sexual fidelity
  • How to coach clients on negotiating flexible monogamy arrangements as well as how to renegotiate a new one after infidelity

Why open marriages work for some and fail for others—and how to identify the early problem signs and help couples recover when the arrangement isn’t working

 

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This online program is worth 2.0 hours CPD.



Speakers

Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.'s Profile

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Tammy Nelson, Ph.D., is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice, a relationship expert and international speaker, an author, a faculty member and teacher with a Doctorate in Philosophy in Clinical Sexology. She is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexologists, a Licensed Professional Counselor, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, a Registered Art Therapist, a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, a Certified Imago Relationship therapist and an Advanced Imago Clinician.

Dr. Tammy is the author of several books including, The New Monogamy; Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity (2013), Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together (2008) and What’s Eating You?: A Workbook for Anorexia and Bulimia (2004). She is the author of Six Weeks to Desire (2013) eBook, as well as several chapters of edited compilations and articles in professional journals. Dr. Nelson has been a featured expert in NY Times, Washington Post, Redbook, MSNBC, Shape, Men’s Health, Woman’s Day, Women’s Health, Self, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, and a source in Time magazine. She writes for Huffington Post, YourTango, and Psychotherapy Networkeras well as her own popular blog www.drtammynelson.com/blog.

Tammy speaks internationally and gives workshops and Intensives for couples and trains therapists around the world on issues relating to sex and relationships. Her campaigns reach audiences in the hundreds of thousands, both for clinical and consumer audiences.  Her goal is to create global relational change through personal transformation. She can be found at www.drtammynelson.com.

Speaker Disclosures:

Financial: Dr. Tammy Nelson maintains a private practice. She is the Executive Director of the Integrated Sex Therapy Training Institute, and she has employment relationships with Daybreak University, Naugatuck Community College, and the California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS). Dr. Nelson receives compensation as a presenter and consultant. She receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc., and she receives royalties as a published author. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.

Non-financial: Dr. Tammy Nelson serves on the dissertation committee for the American Academy of Clinical Sexology (AACS). She is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Sex Counselors, and Sex Therapists (AASECT), the Imago Relationships International Association of Professional and Certified Therapists, International Board of Sexologists, and other organizations. For a complete list, please contact info@pesi.com.

 


Outline

  1. Creating the New Monogamy Agreement
    1. The Explict and Implicit Agreement
    2. Renegotiating Rules of Monogamy Through Developmental Stages
    3. The Momogamy Continuum
    4. Thoughts
    5. Fantasy
    6. Desires
    7. Arousal
    8. Flirtation
    9. Emotions
    10. Action
    11. Connection
    12. Sex
    13. Love
    14. Detachment
  2. The New Normal
    1. Eroticism and Companionship
    2. What Couples Want May Be Changing
  3. Components of an Affair
    1. The Outside Emotional Relationship
    2. The Dishonesty
    3. The Sexual Relationship
  4. Steps in Recovery
    1. Creating Understanding
    2. Renegotiate Agreements
    3. Initiate Erotic Recovery
    4. Empathy in Recovery
  5. Two Elements in Couple Relationships
    1. Business of Relationship
    2. Sexual Aspects
  6. Create A New Vision of The Relationship
    1. Through Exploration and Discussion with Couples
    2. Outline for Both the New Vision of the Future
    3. Creating Agreement over Accepted Behaviors

Objectives

  • Determine how to help clients develop a code of integrity that will define their monogamy and develop their own unique shared definition of honesty, even if it involves a departure from traditional sexual fidelity
  • Demonstrate how to coach clients on negotiating flexible monogamy arrangements as well as how to renegotiate a new one after infidelity
  • Analyze why open marriages work for some and fail for others—and how to identify the early problem signs and help couples recover when the arrangement isn’t working

Target Audience

Psychologists, Physicians, Addiction Counselors, Counselors, Social Workers, Marriage & Family Therapists, Nurses, and other Behavioral Health Professionals

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